There's never a good time to go, whether its school, work or family. Mum had said if anything happened to Gran while we were away not to worry. Well it has all started, she had a severe stroke on Sunday night and has not regained consciousness. I went up on Monday with Mum and stayed with here, but there is not any signs of Gran. Gran who inspite of aches and pains you could always have a good laugh with, so down to earth and a lot of fun. I Remember the time she was teaching me how to use a bow & arrow and fired an arrow up the garden in to Grandpa's precious green house breaking a window! We knew he would be cross, but we were both secretly cracking up with laughter inside. She was a realist to the end and I hope that she can sense us as we sit with her and see her out of this world and into the next.