Guapitas Your sister-in-law is not mareird to your husband, you are. I think you should sit your husband down and explain the way you feel and the fact that you all cannot afford it. Why spend an eternity trying to make up financially you spent in one day. My feelings would be offended as well. It'd be one thing if she sent the whole amount after you told her you could not afford it, but she only sent a portion. Besides that fact, you are offended. May God Bless u.